Southampton
Daily Echo - 23rd June 2000
Limitless
love for little ones
Photographer
Mike Jay Browne reflects on his recent trip to Romania, where
he spent time in children's homes and saw how aid sent from this
country was being used.
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Generous:
Hampshire youngsters like Ben & Sarah Evans are sending
toys to Romanian children like Gabbi (far right).
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About
10 weeks ago I decided to get rid of some unwanted clothes. Being
warm but not smart clothes my fiancée Zoë & I wanted them to go
to Kosovo refugees or somewhere they would be needed, but we were
surprised how difficult it was to find a way to send stuff out.
Eventually
the trail led to Ann Croft who runs New Milton based charity New
Life Into Romania, which sends aid to Romanian orphanages. As
a professional photographer I’ve always wanted to do something
photojournalistic, to highlight something not so well known and
maybe bring about some awareness, transformation and joy at the
same time. We had to go.
We
visited both street children and kids in private as opposed to
state orphanages, looking at who they are, how they live and the
difference aid sent out from here makes to their lives. There’s
so much negative feeling towards aid to Romania and so much attention
drawn to corruption that we wanted to show the other side of the
coin.
Corruption
does exist and from time to time things do go missing, and not
only in Romania. Happily there was no sign of it in the five orphanages
we visited. They were all clean, warm, loving places which really
brought the message home. If we don’t support the efforts of a
brave country, struggling to change from communist to market economy
after bankruptcy and revolution, because of some well publicised
events the joy and transformation of these kids lives would not
happen.
We’ve
all seen the images of children laying six to a urine soaked cot
in state orphanages and we all find it unacceptable. So do the
Romanians. And it’s easy for us to point an accusatory finger
at them - we’re not financially bankrupt. Romania has to think
long and hard about where to spend its money and revitalise the
economy so it can have fully functional hospitals for all it’s
people, worthwhile employment, - clean, warm, loving state orphanages.
We
followed the trail of some toys donated by Ben & Sarah Evans in
New Milton, out to Romania on Ann Croft’s lorry. Not wanting to
show favouritism, Zoë put the toys out in a common room and let
the kids choose themselves. Ben’s ‘Car Capers’ jigsaw found a
home with two boys, Radu and Feli. And eight year old Gabbi fell
in love with Sarah’s pink cuddly Rabbit. Gabbi came to Casa Nostra
orphanage three years ago. When he first arrived he didn’t speak
for three months and is still the size of a five year old.
Each
is orphanage is called a home and home life is simulated as much
as possible. There are three ‘families’ of eight children at Casa
Nostra, each with their own apartment within the building. Each
family has it’s own ‘mothers’ who are paid staff who take the
roll of parent. Unlike adults, children rarely pretend to be comfortable
with anyone they don’t like and something that struck us about
the orphanages Ann is involved with was the effortless bond of
love between the kids and staff.
During
the last two weeks of November there will be an exhibition of
the photographs I took entitled New Life… at The Royal Photographic
Society, Milsom Street, Bath. And I’m trying to set up another
more local one so the many wonderful people who have contributed
to Romanian orphans can see what a difference they make. Thank
you to all the people who put odds and ends in a bag marked Romania
- you make a huge difference.